Involving Siblings and Extended Family in ABA Therapy

For families with multiple children, one of the biggest challenges can be ensuring siblings don't feel overshadowed or resentful when a child with autism requires substantial time, energy and resources. Involving brothers and sisters in the ABA therapy process creates understanding and brings everyone together.

Start by educating siblings honestly about autism in age-appropriate ways. Explain their brother's or sister's diagnosis respectfully, detailing how it may result in different behaviors, sensory needs and accommodations. Reassure them it doesn't make their sibling less lovable or "bad."

Children are incredibly perceptive. Don't hide emotions, but model acceptance and compassion. Frame involvement as an opportunity to form an incredible lifelong bond.

When possible, have typically developing siblings attend an occasional ABA session so they can witness the teaching methods firsthand and ask questions. Therapists can also provide tips for practicing skills in everyday interactions.

You can set aside intentional one-on-one time with each child regularly. For siblings, this focused positive attention does wonders in counteracting resentment or isolation.  They may feel more inclined to cooperate during therapy carryover at home.

Reinforce everyone's unique roles on the same team - each person contributes and has strengths to celebrate. Older siblings can act as peer models or mentors. Younger kids can learn patience and empathy. There are growth opportunities for all.

Siblings of kids with autism demonstrate resilience, flexibility, and beautiful souls. Keeping them involved in an affirming way creates supportive lifelong allies and cherished family memories.